rosy memories
The other night, as part of an ongoing cultural exchange with my Norwegian friend Ã…, I photographed bits and pieces of my painfully vast and extremely dear-to-me collections of dish- and glassware. I almost forgot about my everyday dishes, pictured above. This is part of a complete set of “Young Love” by Royal China on Royal Ironstone. I live in a world where I can eat and drink from these dishes daily, and for that I am grateful.
Something went ping in my head and I remembered seeing a snippet of a saved email about how these beauties came to be in my possession.
And here it is. Written by me on July 2, 2001, to my friend (and #1 lurker) T:
Saturday I was shown the secret thrift store that I never, ever knew about the 37 years I’ve been familiar with Oxnard. I walked in, there were tables and tables filled with art glass, all eras; hundreds of pots, utensils, glassware sets, etc etc that were all in their original packaging: ORIGINAL packaging! Hammered copper pots from the 40s; full dish sets from 50s to 70s; lamps you wouldn’t believe, etc etc. Oh my dear god. I was completely overcome. The prices weren’t dirt cheap, and so I breathed a sigh of relief: perhaps I could resist. Oh, but no: it was half-off day. A 50s ironstone 45-piece dish set: cream color dishes with stylized pink roses, pink tea cups with white interior, bowls/salad plates/full plates/platter service for 8… I was in love and I bought the set, 20 bucks. I packed it in a early-60s tupperware clothes hamper with matching trashbasket (pearlescent while). Copper measuring spoons in their display packaging, a pair of tiki bbq tongs and a 1957 sifter rounded out the purchase. It was like entering a time warp: It was Ventura thrift shopping from 15 years ago. Alone, worth a trip to California for you.
I remember that day so, so well. Not only the major thriftscores, but the company I kept: my darlings Andrew and my mom Maggie. Andrew was the one with the knowledge of this place; he was and is the most amazing finder of the most fantastical delights.
I’m sure mom came along because she could not ever pass up a deal, and just adored Andrew. I remember sitting in the car in the parking lot after shopping; Andrew bought ice cream bars for the three of us, and we sat in happy, companionable silence while we ate.
That was a golden moment during a wonderful, summery summer. A lot of things have changed since then, but that store is still there (though never as good as it was that day), Andrew is still darling, and I still have these dishes.
This is the magical power of things.
roseplates, originally uploaded by hambox
Your memory is strong and continues to fill in the details I have often forgotten or misplaced. I do remember your joy and how easy it was for all of us to be there for so long, walking back and forth through the whole place again and again, waiting for that part in the dream where the cool lamps, dishes and other booty melted into a river of goo and we woke-up desperately clinging to the bed sheets instead of the pink ironstone. I went back there about six month ago and the young man who works there told me they all missed me.
Sigh.
Lucky me – getting pictures in my honour – and lucky all the rest of you who’ll see them as well! But double lucky all of you who are able to visit Becky and drink a cup of coffee from those beautiful cups! And triple-quadruple-quintuple you who are able to visit Andrew’s store where such fantastic pieces of china can be found! Sounds amazing! Becky, what about a field trip there if you’re around that place – with camera, of course 😉
Big hug to you, Andrew. Ã…sta, you’re not going to believe this but I’ve only been back to that store ONCE since that magical day — a few months ago with my sister. But I will go back, for you!!