smile to me and take my hand and wave good-bye
My father died on Monday, August 28, 2006, after a brief struggle with liver cancer. I had a sad, mad, spiritual, beautiful, terrible few days in Boston, culminating with his funeral and service at the Mt. Auburn Cemetery on Friday.
I have written several protected posts (dated 8/26, below, and 9/6, above) detailing a few things about my dad that I don’t want to share with the world at large. You are welcome to read it: the password is my middle name [7 letters]. If you can’t remember it, email me and I’ll send it to you. Subsequent private posts will use the same password. Also, if you have a flickr account, tell me and I’ll make you a friend. There are many interesting pictures there.
My stepsister Caroline read this at the service:
This body is not me; I am not caught in this body,
I am life without boundaries,
I have never been born and I have never died.
Over there the wide ocean and the sky with many galaxies
All manifests from the basis of consciousness.
Since beginningless time I have always been free.
Birth and death are only a door through which we go in and out.
Birth and death are only a game of hide-and-seek.
So smile to me and take my hand and wave good-bye.
Tomorrow we shall meet again or even before.
We shall always be meeting again at the true source,
Always meeting again on the myriad paths of life.— From the Anguttara Nikaya (translated by Thich Nhat Hanh)