reading my guts out again

So, these readings in LA are going really really well. To my local folk, I am doing what I can to bring a similar night northward to the Ventura/Santa Barbara burgs, so that the love can be shared with the more homebound homies of mine. Not that you shouldn’t try to heave your ass over…

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i support grudge control

Today, I was idly e-wondering to Violet about why my day felt wrong and off. But I knew why. It was the hasty, reactive emails I fired off earlier this morning .. and now realizing (with cooler-headed, post-coffee clarity) how the emails could be construed incorrectly (and by that I mean: come across as totally…

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give a hoot

It’s Blog Action Day: On October 15th, bloggers around the web will unite to put a single important issue on everyone’s mind – the environment. Every blogger will post about the environment in their own way and relating to their own topic. Our aim is to get everyone talking towards a better future. I have…

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ass cradlers and time keepers

I hate ugly couches, originally uploaded by hambox. The image above represents a mere fraction of the sofas for sale, 99.5% of them fugly beyond belief, on the two local craiglist pages upon which I lurk. As I’ve mentioned before, I am idly looking for a couch, so I regularly pinch my nose and jump…

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in which i celebrate the singular sensation that is violet spark

This is the first time I’ll thank a photosharing website (and possibly, hopefully?, the last), but I have to give credit where it is due: flickr has been one of the finest things to evolve from the best elements of the internet. It has enriched my connections, made me a better photographer, and wasted a…

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hamblog, now with less content

My one defense is that I am generating content elsewhere, especially for live audiences, which provides immediate and more satisfying feedback than toiling away on this bloggie, which I have no idea if you (yes you) are reading and/or enjoying, unless you comment on it, electronically or in person. Get it? Just this past weekend…

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i’ve been a bad bad blog

I have installed this naughty-sounding WordPress plugin for this blog called Bad Behavior. It’s like a virtual dom has taken over, showing spam comments who’s boss and denying them from what they want to do the most — begging me to let them tell me about Levitr@, pen1s enlarging and adfarms. But the spam has…

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self-love

Maybe yesterday afternoon’s sudden squall of death/disaster trauma helped me to let go in a strange way, but last night, reading excerpts from my most personal of personal teenage diaries, to a room of strangers*, was some big fun. This was part of “Cringe Night”, hosted by Thessaly the Ukulady (pictured above) at the Theatre…

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death, be not an asshole

I was musing, this week, on the coincidence of three friends concurrently going through some sad, hard, death-related things, when, today: wham! Make it four friends. And WHAM, just now: me. Just got the news that someone I know and love just died — what? the fuck? Death and disaster need to be given a…

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