now if i can only work on my road rage

A couple things happened recently that make me realize how far I’ve come since I was that incredibly sensitive, painfully self-conscious Younger Me. My Elderly Relative completely lost his temper; his rage boiled up out of nowhere and he snapped pretty viciously at me. And it affected me, well, not at all. It was a…

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my favorite news article ever

From the San Francisco Chronicle Monday, May 26, 2008 Teen fashion gets Rube Goldberg-like results by Leah Garchik Spy L.A. reports on the results of teen fashions during allergy season: In an East Bay public library on Tuesday, a young man about 17 years old and 6 feet 5, wearing baggy jeans and a grill…

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locked and loaded

The other night, while walking down the street with friends: Becky: I’m wearing a new bra. Talia: So am I! Random eavesdropping dude on the street: Me too! Underwire! Oh, underwear. One of the best things about visiting New York is staying with Tamar and Rich, not just because they are fab hosts and dear…

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i almost hesitate to announce this.

You may have noticed how posty I am lately. Well, I’m going to try to post every day. This year. My friend Paul has been wonderfully encouraging about my writing, and when he announced he would take the 2011 WordPress Daily Post Challenge, I wanted to support him. At first I thought of commenting daily…

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micro-impressions of my trip to the east coast

This is Strabo, one of Rich and Tamar’s amazing cats, December 2010. My sister, brother-in-law and I cracking up at our stupid groaning sounds we make to each other, like a sort of bizarre tribal call-and-response My nephew showing off the deprivation tank he built in his bedroom Wondering what that comical squeak toy sound…

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seen on various walls in my life

At Government Center in Ventura, CA: Are you ready for a pandemic? On a Cadillac in Camarillo, CA: Don’t let the car fool you, my treasure is in Heaven. On the donor’s wall at a coffee chain in Port Hueneme, CA: Dick Hertz On a wall in the State Building in Boston, MA (many years…

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craftbox: manly embroidered scarf

For Christmas, I made scarves for my brother-in-law Mark and for my friend Rich. I thought that corduroy would be a nice soft-but-manly fabric. That may be true, but it was a bitch to sew. Something about the directionality of the fabric made it really hard to work with. A young man I know works…

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little id, hear her roar

On the way back from the east coast, I used the free wifi on the plane (a Christmas present from Virgin and Google) to report: Surrounded by little kids on this flight. Everyone keeping it together fairly well, except for the 1-year-old behind me who is channeling The Beast. Tell it, tiny Satan! This was…

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